Emotional Vampires: How to Deal With Toxic People Video
Margie Warrell, Bestselling Author of Find Your Courage, Master Coach & International Speaker, shares how to deal with emotional vampires - those people who "suck the life" from you. For more help in being courageous in your relationships and life, and to get Margie's free newsletter visit: www.margiewarrell.com or join her on Facebook at www.facebook.com/margiewarrell
I find that making ...
I find that making sympathetic noises and nodding alot leaves me? free to think about other things like unicorns and puppies or what to have for dinner
do not invite them ...
do not invite them to any social events o invited some one to my wedding and i wished? i hadnt
Be careful telling ...
Be careful telling some people it can backfire. Some of them are arrogant and full of pride and will sometimes harrass you or? make up lies about you. Best to get away from them, as some nothing you say will get through to them, get away from them.
Indeed, be the ...
Indeed, be the change you want? to see in others. Good advise. And let yourself become more peaceful inside too. Then dealing with "vampires" can come from a place of power, rather than fear.
When you offer ...
When you offer options to a? energy vampire you are just feeding the monster.
Nope but i might as ...
Nope but i might as well have been i saw her almost every day. Actually another thing you can do is whenever your sister says somthing mean to you just tell her to f**k off and then when she says? another swear or diss or w/e back to you just ignore and act happy and get the final word in.
were you living ...
were you living with this energy stealing vampire??
A REAL FRIEND will ...
A REAL FRIEND will ALWAYS listen to another friend in distress, and not write them off an EV. How can a person? feel better if the DON'T discuss their problems? with friends and other people? To write everyone off as an EV due to longstanding problems in their lives is GIBBERISH. We must LOVE, by being there for our friends, family, and humanity as a whole. While we do listen to people with problems, we must do it with LOVE, and proactively suggest way that can improve their situations.
If you rly wanna ...
If you rly wanna defeat an energy stealing vampire without killing them lol... Just ignore them. Dont? bother telling her to shut up or dont stoop down to her level and get mad. Act like what ever she says about you or to you doesnt bother you anymore and just act happy. I no i had a huge energy stealing vampire in my life and i started doing this and it would help alot.
This could have ...
This could have helped some at work a few years back when I found myself working closely with one? of the hardcore emotional vampires. It was my first experience with one and was completely stressed and exhausted everyday and didn't know what to do. Started out trying to help, then began shaving off more and more time from this person, but the nature of the job limited that. I consider myself a kind, gentle person but ideation of violent homicide began to creep into my mind. Finally had to quit.
Interesting... ...
Interesting...infinite perspectives on this. Not unlike the seemingly endless facets of light striking a prism. I know quite a few people who try and help everyone, and usually end up overwhelmed themselves. Probably what scared the survivors of the Titanic off going back. Being swamped. However, being the only one high and dry in your very own 'life boat' can be a? pretty lonely existence.
that's not gonna ...
that's not gonna work. i've told my sister to shut up before and she just yells the same thing back. THE ANSWER IS TO KILL THESE PEOPLE. i've though about killing my? sister because she just drains me of my energy.
the? women talk ...
the? women talk show host is annoying!
woman are? the ...
woman are? the worst.
seems? judgmental
seems? judgmental
I do tell my ...
I do tell my significant other as calm as I can, that what you are doing is causing abit of turmoil in our relationship but then I get, "Oh, you are saying it's my fault?!" There is no getting around solving problems in our relationship. I ask her if? she's got 'soul'utions or ideas we can solve our problems with? She has never been able to answer any of these questions. I really do my best not to see her negativity or absorb it but I'm reminded of it when I notice it, which is alot.
Have you? EVER met ...
Have you? EVER met a true vampire?!!
They are not ...
They are not reptilians they are narcissists... Stay away? from them.. they will bleed you dry.. and you can never win, walk? away..
I agree with you. ...
I agree with you. What happened to caring for other people? I think it depends on the person complaining, but they may have a life? that is as difficult as they say. Where is the genuine empathy we should show each other.
Wow, I have done ...
Wow, I have done this to? other people and they have done it to me. This is enlightening! I often find people come to me for their problems and unable to cope I go to somebody else and repeat cycle! But true, I find that just honestly telling people I cannot handle their problems is making me better able to realize that mine are more manageable.
Conclusion: People ...
Conclusion: People wouldnt be recieving negative energy if they were more content with themselves, they must have a guilty conscience or they are completely self absorbed. These energies are recieved only if you allow them in. EV's are Hyper sensitive & commonly take on the bigger jobs. They are fooled into thinking this position gives them? importance, though it was their employers that chose this path for them. EV's dont like when others try to control their destiny. EV rebel society to change
Because Emotional ...
Because Emotional Vampires work way harder than all the other free riders. An emotional vampire is surrounded by under achievers that are inconsiderate & leave the burden on EVs' shoulders. Where there is a complaint, there is a request. Work harder & be considerate to the EV work load that far exceeds your petty lounging. EV's are stressed physically as well, as all others stand around, nor do they obtain the skills to complete EV related tasks. The? issue is equality & Non EV's are selfish.
yeah they are ...
yeah they are called reptilians. they are everywhere.. stay away from them.. they will bleed you dry.. and you can never? win, walk away..
the girl is? so ...
the girl is? so mean.
Learn the serenity ...
Learn the serenity prayer and repeat as necessary.?
nice...way to think ...
nice...way to think positive...maybe pay attention to this video..you might? get something out of it.
moron vampires ...
moron vampires talking about their own? kind!! lame lame!
when some body ...
when some body falls, why not help them out? if not you can walk away, but if you feel that bad, about what they say? how do you think they deal with it 24.7, these 3 are idiots, who have no sense of compassion and probably are to blessed to? give a f**k,
Is it me or is the ...
Is it me or is the female host behaving like a? toxic person?
